Ask yourself: are you loving yourself or being selfish?

Lately I've been thinking about what does it mean to love yourself. I believe that we often mix it with being selfish. I also believe, that selfishness is something that comes naturally, but pure unconditional love is something we have to learn. 

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I'd love to read your thoughts about loving yourself. Leave a comment or a link to your blog post below.